Naughty Girls is just one of the many Go-Go establishments that I've never visited in Pattaya, that is until the other day.
A bar owner friend and I had been to Jomtien to visit a couple of newly opened bars, but we remembered that there was a party for the Manager of Naughty Girls that evening and decided to drop by Soi Diamond (just off Walking Street) to pass on our Birthday Greetings.
As soon as we took our seats in Naughty Girls i'm imediately set upon by a 'hyperactive' Go-Go girl and a sultry service girl / hostess. I'm happy with both.
My friend Adam, seems quite happy to keep to his own company as once again nothing really 'works' for him .... anyway, i'm good.
I'm chatting away, interviewing both candidates etc. When I realise that these two are quite happy to go together .. happy days. Unfortunately, it's only around 8:45pm and I'd prefer to go home to change and eat, then meet them back here.
I say that i'm happy to barfine them both, but i'm going to come back before 10pm and I don't want the 'hyperactive' go-go to have anymore drinks ...... if she's 'maow' i'm not going to barfine her.
No problems they say.
SSS / Eat, and i'm back at Naughty Girls for 9:45pm
I buy a drink for my two new partners and pay bar at the same time. Unfortunately, it would appear that my instructions have not been adhered to because, as soon as miss go-go finishes her drink she stumbles back against the stage and falls into a crumpled heap on the floor.
Ok, I ask the service girl to go change and keep miss go-go with me for a chat. I explain that i'm not going to 'take' her, but i'm happy to pay bar. She's too drunk for me, but if she want's to go home or stay at the party. No problem, i'll still pay bar. She's happy.
I buy another round for her and her friend, another drunken go-go girl.
This is when my already barfined service girl returns (unchanged) and complains that I didn't buy a drink for her!
I explain that i'm not taking the dancer, only her. The dancer is drunk already so one more drink isn't going to change anything for me.
We are then joined by a Mamasan who tries to talk me into taking the dancer and in the meanwhile the service girl is still asking for a drink when she should be getting changed.
I now have 5 girls facing me and asking for drinks or attempting to talk me into barfining drunken girls. I try to explain that i'm not paying bar for anyone now, only my check bin and i'll leave. Sadly, it's just not sinking in.
Enough is enough, I look for Danny the Manager, sadly it's his party and he's a little worse for wear too. Then I spot the owner (forget the name) and decide to speak with him.
I say that I had arranged to barfine a dancer on the condition that she's not drunk when I return and that I'm trying to barfine a service girl who doesn't seem to be getting changed but keeps asking for drinks instead.
He hands me a 1k note.
No, I say, it's not a question of money or refunds etc. I just don't want either of the girls now ...... the 'mood' has obviously gone and I want to pay my check bin, without the barfines, and leave.
He's fine with that and I take my leave of Naughty Girls a-go-go.
However, I can't help wondering where it all went wrong.
My first time in Naughty Girls and I was actually impressed initially ....... sadly, it turns out that, for me anyway, they really are quite 'naughty' in all the wrong ways.
Those Naughty Girls in Soi Diamond, Pattaya
Category: Go Go Bars, Added: Sep 11, 2007
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(we reserve the right to edit or delete comments)Feb 08, 2008, 22:18:30 Mike Philips wrote:
You forget that you are dealing with young girls here. The go go girl did not know if you were going to come back or not. Most guys say that they are going to come back but don't. The go go girl is obviously not going to turn down alcoholic lady drinks for a couple of hours while waiting for you to return (probably especially when it is a party everyone is getting merry and she may have been offered free drinks).
It is natural that if you were with two girls and one goes off and you buy drinks for the second girl and another girl but not the first girl that the first girl would ask you to buy her a drink as well when she learns about it. She obviously did not want to miss out. As you liked her as shown by the fact that you bar fined her she would have expected you to buy drinks for her and not other girls who you were not bar fining.
It is the mamasans job to try and persuade guys to bar fine girls and if you had already bar fined a girl but changed your mind she would obviously want to try and encourage you to change it back if even just not to disappoint the go go girl that you had bar fined.
The bar owner gave you both your bar fines back. Not many bars would do that. If you change your mind then many bars would just say tough and some might take you outside for a beating if you complained or kicked up a fuss.
Feb 09, 2008, 16:25:36 casper wrote:
Sorry Mike, but I know exactly who i'm dealing with just as well as you do. I completely agree that many farangs say one thing and do another .... I am not one of them.
If I agree to do something, it happens, if for some unforeseen reason it doesn't happen, then a BIG apology and some financial recompence is forthcoming.
Yes, there was a party, yes in a way I can't blame the girls for drinking till drunk (they don't have an easy job do they?!).
However, as the saying goes "Up to you" and on this occasion I decided to make a stand .... what was the alternative? I was quite happy to pay bar for the girl to go home (or stay, up to her) but I just didn't want to have a drunken girl throwing up in my hotel.
As for the other one, why hadn't she got changed? She left to change but rushed back once she heard of the lady drink. Shouldn't she have been thinking of the 2k (give or take) that she'd be receiving that her drunken friend wouldn't?
I believe that the 'message' of this little episode is that you really do have to stand up for yourself in Pattaya. The girls will quite happily run circles around you if you don't.
As for the whole Barfine paid or unpaid thing. I had said that I would return and pay bar for them, given certain conditions. I returned and circumstances had changed, yet I was still prepared to pay two barfines for only the one girl.
For the mamassan to become involved and attempt to coerce me into taking one drunken girl and one 'miss stroppy', was simple bad business practice.
As you can imagine, I have never been back to Naughty Girls.
I'm only one guy however, additionally, I'm an expat not a tourist ... maybe i'm not what they are after. But I certainly know that they are not what I am after.
Things do cut both ways.
Finally, nobody gave me anything 'back' I hadn't checkbinned at that time. I only spoke with the manager / owner in order to get the girls 'off my case' and explain that I wouldn't be paying 'bar' for either of them. One was drunk, the other hadn't bothered to change.
I was out of there.
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